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Many of us are familiar with AI [Artificial Intelligence]
but what is Emotional Intelligence? And its relevance in Management, especially
people management? One respondent quipped ‘ego’. Though not entirely off the
mark, it addresses just an aspect. Look before you leap; right. Do you think
before acting?
Emotional intelligence (EI) is a term used to describe
the ability of an individual to recognize their own and other people's emotions,
to discriminate between different feelings and label them appropriately, and to
use emotional information to guide thinking and behaviour [courtesy: wiki].
The term EI gained recognition in 1995 and thereafter evolved as a model,
namely ability and trait model.
So far we have studied human behaviour, but seldom
self-behaviour consciously. As individuals, we often introspect about our
actions, and those who dig deeper to understand emotions and then associate
with actions to adjust and adapt are better as decision-makers states studies.
How effective as Managers? More than anything and anywhere,
Emotional Intelligence most needed when negotiating with a colleague or peer or
team or superior. Man exhibits myriad emotions. To handle and navigate needs
successful soft skills for our decision ought to be rationale, objective and
holistic. In a chaotic world with its cacophony like – snarls created after caught
in traffic jams or embroiled in a heated exchange - it can be anything trivial
to most trying of circumstance. Conflict is common occurrence but the choice to
respond rest with us. Calm, collected and composed even in the wake of a storm
can’t be seen in everyone. It’s a calling at a very high level and hence those
who EI is way above are really adept in adjusting response/reaction and revel
at interpersonal relations. The ability to recognize, relate, identify,
empathize with others plight, connecting with others, commendable communication
and control crisis are typical traits. In other words, high Emotional
intelligence (EI) proves very effective in man-Management.
Emotionally intelligent leadership are recognized by strong
sense of self-awareness whereby that can detect one’s emotion and direct
appropriate response mechanism. That call is critical. As highlighted above how
we choose to respond is always our choice. Failure to manage might prove to
fatal to one and all involved. Develop skills to be aware and evaluate the
emotions of others, so as to react suitably to the situation. Leaders’ hallmark
lies in this reception/response that has a direct impact on gaining confidence
enhance performance, Employee retention to total satisfaction. They speak less
and listen a lot. Not hear but listen to understand the underlying emotions.
The tone, tenor, language, gestures gives scope to study and gauge
emotions. Leaders always choose the words and measure before delivery –
again in the right tone and tenor. These are exceptional skills to anticipate
and in some case pre-empt – emotional intelligence is all about this and such
Leaders prove to be remarkable in management.
It might sound new to some or even niche, but make no
mistake - only the fittest survive. Emotional intelligence is treated as
a critical factor in assessing your management skills complementing human
capital [education, certification] and fitness aspects. Yes, very much!
Project Managers are expected to have a high emotional
intelligence, as important and credible as the Project Management
certification. One is a testament about your psyche and other about education,
expertise and experience.
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